THE PERFECT PROCRASTINATOR

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THE PERFECT PROCRASTINATOR: The word procrastination actually means: “to put off until tomorrow”

Procrastination occurs when you make a decision to do something, the outcome is valuable to you, but you don't follow through with the action necessary to achieve it.

There are a range of factors that contribute to procrastination such as:

  Perfectionism: “If I can't do it well now I'll do it later when it will be done better.”

  Fear of failure: “I would be so humiliated if I didn't get a good mark; I just couldn't face it!”

  As an excuse: “I could have done better if I had more time!”

  The effect of messages you have received in your past: “You are stupid! You will have to work much harder than anyone else.”

  Internal thoughts: “I am a hopeless case if I don't get a good mark.”

  Problems with decision making: “I don't know which is the most important or where to begin.”

  Feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed by too much work: “There is too much; I can't get it done in time.”

Most of us procrastinate about study at some stage but if this has become a pattern in your life it is worth taking steps now to stop it. Procrastination tends to become insidious when linked with academic work and can result in disappointing academic records that do not reflect academic potential.

How to overcome procrastination

1. Reframe your thinking

What you think, will directly affect how you feel, which will directly affect what you do. What you do can influence how you feel and what you think about yourself. Understanding the link between your thoughts, feelings and actions are important to overcoming procrastination.

For example, if you think:

  “There's no point doing this if I can't get another distinction.”

  “Everyone else in the course understands the work so much better than me.”

  “I'm a fraud – I don't know how they let me in to this course.”

  “My Dad was right – this is just a waste of time.”

You are likely to start feeling:

  anxious

  worried

  stupid

  unmotivated.

When you are feeling this way you are likely to:

  find it difficult to concentrate

  look for distractions that make you feel better or 'numb' the anxious feelings.

These actions will reinforce and strengthen the original thoughts and hence the cycle continues. One way to break this cycle is to reframe your thoughts. Let's see what might happen if you were to start approaching the situation differently:

If you think:

  “I've gone well in my studies in the past; it is likely I will go well again.”

  “I chose this course because I really want to work in this field.”

You are likely to feel:

  hopeful

  connected to what is important to you

  motivated.

You are then likely to:

  start studying!

You do have control over what you think, however it is important to acknowledge that it can be really hard to 'just change your thoughts'. Sometimes certain thoughts have been around for so long that it can feel like you have no control over them. Sometimes these thoughts have been introduced to you at a young age. Sometimes these thoughts are constantly being reinforced by people or other outside factors in your life. If you are finding it difficult to reframe your thinking, try out the tips listed below:

Take time to analyse your thoughts – write them down – sometimes people can get caught up in 'thinking traps' that affect how they view a situation. Examples of thinking traps are:

  Black and white thinking: “Everyone in the course understands the work better than me.”

  Making Assumptions: “People will know I am nervous about the presentation and will laugh at me.”

  Catastrophizing: “If I don't pass the exam I might as well stop studying.”

  Labelling yourself: “I am so stupid if I can't pass first year.”

  Discounting the positive: “The only reason I went well on the test was because it was easy – anyone could pass that.”

  Focusing on the negative: “I always get things wrong.”

If you find your thinking has elements of these traps try to examine the evidence for the thought and find a more 'balanced' view of the situation. For example rather than thinking “I always get things wrong”, you could think “Sometimes I make mistakes but that's okay because I'm learning”. Sometimes it can help to do this process with someone – a University counsellor can help you with this technique.

Surround yourself with the new – write down on brightly colored cards the positive and motivating thoughts you want to be thinking and display these in places you will see them, particularly in places that are a source of distraction – on your TV, on your computer, on your mirror in the bathroom, on your fridge.

  Practice Mindfulness

Take time out every day to internally 'check out' how you are feeling. Building into your daily routine just 10 minutes of 'quiet reflection' will help you start to notice your thoughts and the feelings connected to these. This can take a bit of practice at first – and there are some techniques that you can learn to make this process easier. The Counselling Service has workshops where you can learn these techniques. Come into the center to grab a timetable of the workshops or speak with a counsellor.

It can be helpful to try to not engage with the unhelpful thoughts and feelings. When an unhelpful thought comes into your mind, notice and name the thought (e.g. “I am having an anxious thought.”) accept/acknowledge that you are having it, and then let the thought go. Sometimes it can help to imagine the thought drifting away on a raft out to sea or in a hot air balloon into the sky. Or let it just move across your mind like it was a movie scene.

2. Breaking the tasks into small pieces

Revising the whole year's work can be too daunting, but just revising chapter one today is manageable. Every task can be broken down into smaller, more manageable parts. It is very important to have an overview of the year's work but equally important to schedule tasks each day into small bite sized pieces. Make sure the goals you set yourself are achievable, as if you set them too big, you are likely to not meet them, which is most likely going to reinforce some of the unhelpful thoughts that you are trying to challenge. Ask yourself the following question: “On a scale of 1-10, how confident am I at achieving this goal?”

Research shows that if you give yourself a score of more than 8, you are most likely to achieve the goal. Any score under 8, means that you have set yourself too big a goal and need to break it down. Start small (e.g. 10 minutes study), complete the goal, and then build up from there.

3. Estimating the time a task will take

Underestimating the time you think a task will take justifies procrastination because there is plenty of time and therefore no real urgency to get started.

Overestimating the time a task will take may be intimidating in that you perceive the task as too large and difficult and may result in difficulty getting started. Feeling overwhelmed by having too much to do can be paralyzing.

Learning how to accurately estimate how long a task will take and setting personal deadlines ahead of the external deadlines are important skills. Personal deadlines are dates set prior to the formal due date. These are essential not only in case an unplanned event gets in the way of completing the task but also in developing a sense of being in control and confident about your work.

4. Making lists

Lists are useful to keep track of what needs to be done. They are most useful when used in conjunction with making priorities, and scheduling.

In other words: lists of tasks in order of priority with the times that you intend to both do the tasks as well as when they will be completed. Be careful not to get too carried away. Too long a list on non-essential tasks can be overwhelming. 

5. Giving yourself reminders

Making the task conspicuous makes it more difficult to avoid. For example, placing the task where you will see it most often means it is more difficult to overlook. Constant daily reminders are sometimes necessary to counter more pleasant distractions.

6. Preparing workplace tools and eliminating distractions

If procrastination is an issue in your life then you will probably find that you need little to lure you from their allotted task (e.g. getting up to get an eraser; answering the phone; responding to questions or comments from family/friends; working with the television on in the background or working on a cluttered messy desk).

Being honest with yourself about distractions, organizing the tools you need before you start and choosing the most appropriate environment are important factors if you are serious about overcoming procrastination.

7. Determine the best times of the day

Most people have certain times of the day where they are the most productive. Early afternoon is often a time when most people are a bit sluggish and find it difficult to concentrate. Some people are at their best first thing in the morning while others don't get going until mid-morning.

Once you have established when your most productive time is, keep that for the most important or difficult tasks and leave your least productive time for the more routine tasks (e.g. photocopying, finding texts in the library, word processing, etc.). One strategy many people find helpful is to decide to do just one task first thing. This then sets the scene for the rest of the day in that by accomplishing something early you feel empowered to do more.

8. Set aside time for other thoughts

If you have other worries or concerns on your mind, allot a specific time in the day to think about them or deal with them. If you start thinking about these issues while studying, acknowledge the thought or the worry, perhaps write it down as a reminder for when you do have time to attend to it, and then reassure yourself that you have a specific time to focus on these sorts of concerns.

Sometimes events or incidents can happen in your life that will have a big impact on how you are feeling such as the death of someone close to you, a relationship break-up, or a family emergency. It is normal for these sorts of circumstances to affect your ability to concentrate and focus on your studies. If this is the case and you are worried about falling behind, make an appointment with one of the counsellors who can help you with possible options.

9. Reward yourself

A technique helpful for some is using incentives for tasks achieved. This can be combined with breaking larger jobs into smaller pieces and rewarding yourself when you have finished each small piece.

For example, having a coffee break after reading chapter one, lunch after chapter two and so on. Watching television after the work is complete is a good incentive provided the quality is not compromised to get the job done before a particular program begins.   

10. Organise support

Telling others of your intentions or enlisting their company can sometimes take the loneliness or feelings of deprivation out of studying. Knowing that you are not the only person in the world that is deprived can be very reassuring. Studying with other people can make a huge difference to productivity provided you do not sabotage each other.

It is useful to establish when you will take breaks and rules around interrupting each other. You don't have to be studying the same topic. Simply having another's presence can be helpful. When joining a gym you are more likely to keep going if you have a commitment to someone else to attend, and meeting a friend to study together can work in the same way.